Social & emotional pseudo-intelligence compass
How many times have you heard them say Jerry is a bit dull, but still a nice person? Well, I haven’t cause I don’t know anyone named Jerry. But, forget about the good, the bad and the ugly and focus on the four main criteria that you really should pay attention to: funny, boring, can be trusted and can’t be trusted.
Let’s start with the worst-case scenario – you don’t trust ‘em and you find ’em boring. What are you waiting for? Run for dear life.
You don’t trust ’em but you find ’em funny. Well, have fun! Stay and fool around as long as you want, but don’t get surprised if something gets fishy and it’s not that month-old tuna sandwich left to rot in your handbag.
The most tricky one – you generally trust ’em but you find ’em boring. this could be ball ‘n’ chain camouflaged in a story of mutual understanding. Who needs laughter when you can feel safe tonight? Well, everyone but you.
Don’t be a blockhead, this could easily drag you down.
And if you trust ’em and find ’em funny, stay forever cause you might have found a pot of gold. Lay back and relax… and hope to find yourself in someone’s first quadrant, too.
VERNAKERA 